i dunno if this should be here or in the vaginarium forum, so i just choose here. anyways, i hung out with my ex gf, 3 and a half year relationship, yesterday and now i really dont know what to do. i can easily say that as hard as ive tried and all ive done to seperate myself from her and forget about her since she broke up with me about a month and a half ago, im not over her. i know that isnt alot of time apart, and that its definately gonna take more time to fully get over her. i know that seeing her would only refresh my mind as to why i miss her so much, but i really wanted to see her and see how she as doing. after talking with her a while we got on the subject of us, and what i took from what she said is that she still has feelings for me too. she kept saying how she really misses me, and that us being just friends may even be too hard on her right now, which i really diddnt expect from her, i thought i was the one taking it so hard. she was holding my hand and hugging me with so much affection while we were talking about it so even the body language was there. i asked her if she thinks that her and i could ever be together again, which prob wasnt a good idea, and all she said was that she doesnt know, and that she doesnt know what she wants right now. so now im here and i dont know where we stand or what to do. i feel like this time apart gave me the ability to see what i was doing wrong in the relationship even more and have leared alot from it and i feel like i could do things differently now. i dont know if since both of us still have feelings for eachother after we have tried to seperate ourselves from eachother if we should try to have a go at a relationship again or not. i realize that alot of it is up to her since she is the one uncertain about what she wants, and that i cant just let her drag me along and wait and should keep trying to forget about her. but i feel like we still have something together and i think that she does too. im open to advice or anything.