Well some of you might remember my fairly recent posts about my situation with the married woman at my work and how she did me wrong... And I was depressed for a while. Good news is I am almost over it I was running for a month or so now I've been drinking a lot.... Anyways I've been talking to these other 2 chicks one who has a boyfriend and the other who is married. The married chick wants me to join the gym with her and work out with her. She flirts a little bit but not a whole lot. she's a little thick but is really fine with a nice ass.... She's really friendly but I'm not sure if she wants me in a more than friend way or not she tells me I smell good and things like that. I can't tell with her. YOu guys think I should workout with her or would that be a bad idea I am attracted to her, she's a thick black chick never been with one..... Okay the chick with the boyfriend me and her have been emailing bakc and forth fairly frequently lately with a little flirting nothing really heavy... She is in the old position that my "ex married friend was at" She sits in the same seat. She has asthma, wears the same perfume, and also is allergic to shellfish..... (freaky) Lately she has been really opening up to me. She is starting to tell me how she wishes her boyfriend treated her better and things like that. we have this secret santa thing at work and she wants to come help me shop I just play it to keep the ladies in the office happy. Well she has been really opening up to me a lot and I am trying my best not to get friendzoned. What is the best way about going about this. Or should I just be a friend because she lives with her boyfriend.... I think in a way I'm just flirting with these girls to keep my mind off of that other chick and try to forget about her. So, you guys think messing with either of these would be a bad decision or should I make a move with the chick with the boyfriend. Man, the black chick has a nice ass and nice complexion.... She also wants me to come jogging with her.