And my niece that is 10 is with us on vacation just had her first period WHEW. So thankful the wife is here. My poor BIL has been dealing with everything since my sister passed in November and now this. We'll get my niece squared away no worries but now it's basically as if she's our second child, that happens to be 10 lol, so quite a process. I know my BIL is thankful cause he's a deer in the lights with everything, my sister did basically everything up until the day she left us