Lets do another one? I'm going to NY in 2 weeks actually, wrong side I know but atleast same country, lolI was also thinking it's been over 10 years since the BBQ and you had a kid grow to be 10 after that. We old, dude. Having to account for so many years hurts my head.
Spoiler about a movie below.I asked my partner if she ever wishes she had died before we met so Leona would have never been born and ultimately hurt and, based upon her visible reaction I found out that she had not felt that way. So, thats something.
I'm not really sure what's actually going on in this thread right now, but I loved this movieSpoiler about a movie below.
It's wild how the plot of Arrivalmirrors your gender-based feelings on a traumatic situation like this, too. The mother in the movie will always have the baby despite knowing she will eventually suffer and die from an incurable disease and the husband leaves her because she knows all of this in advance and he can't handle it.
Goin on 8 1/2 months of me sleeping on pull out couches, the floor, a chair or a mattress pad next to her to help settle her when she wakes up uncomfortable at night. I don't see it stopping for another 6-9 months. Theres not much that hasn't gone through my mind in the 19-20 hours a day I've been awake this entire time about how things could be different.Wtf?