If Tigre or others wish to close or delete this, feel free, I don't mind. I just felt that this should be posted and we might actually get some good discussion going through it. I have the answer to all the questions asked in this section (and vag actually). Or atleast it is the answer to most of them. It is a very simple concept that everyone should know and will solve most of your problems. COMMUNICATE. You want to try something new, you want to see if your partner likes something, you want to see your partner likes the same things as you or has hidden fantasies? COMMUNICATE IT!!!!! I can not count the number of times I (and others) have posted this in a thread, so I think I might just start linking to this thread and saying here, read. Oh, and to now complicated everything, it isn't just communication it is also trust. You have to trust your partner to feel comfortable with communicating because you have to feel that you won't be judged. For instance, I told lovely that I am not really into beastiality, but I figured it might be neat to see her get eaten out by a dog (big long tongue, you know). She looked at me and said HELL NO!!!......Fine, end of the idea. HOwever, I communicated it with her and I also trusted her to respond and not think I am fucked up. So anyway if mods think this should be closed feel free, but I wouldn't mind hearing other people's thoughts on this (with or against). Personally I think this is the answer to almost all the questions in here. Thoughts?