Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by SeaMack99, Oct 23, 2005.
Dose anyone in relationships ever miss the "chase".
Lately I been missing it.
I miss the fact that my "game" seems to be a hella of a lot stronger when I already have someone. Does that count?
yeah I got more confidence when im with someone
Some call it the "Thrill of the Hunt"...some call it "the Game"...whatever one calls it..the experience is basic..it's that heady excitment, that primal urge...the attraction...that tingle...all systems are on alert...the "go" signal flares...then the "Dance" begins...unexplored territory...the delight...the novelty...the utter exhilaration of the conquest...
No I don't miss anything like that.
I am happy and secure in my marriage and would much rather have that than some silly game of dating.
you're a fucken liar.
Care to explain why?
i'd have to disagree with you man... if your married, i think you WANT to stop playing the game, and be with someone permanently - hence the marraige part ..
i think the game is bs. i would much rather have something more stable. a lot less let downs lol
I love when people come into a thread, make such an idiotic statement (mispelled, even!) and then just leave without explanation. It's as though we know what's going on in his head to make him think the way he does.
I don't miss the chase at all, the chase was a huge pain in the ass. I do sometimes miss the attention and novelty of a new relationship, but that's balanced by the security and whatnot of a long-term relationship.
uhh i dont sit on OT all day to reply... but i did come back.
and here it is
the chase is for me quite "fun" i dont mean seeing what girls i can bag and then ditching them, i dont do that. Im referring to the thrill of the first holding of hands/kiss whatever and what it takes to get to that point with someone you really like. And finding out they like you back is great.
now I do believe married life is probably awesome, and the love thing is great, but what i described above is always for me something to remember and miss. Not saying i'd break up a marriage to go for the hunt again, however its not like i wouldnt think about how it was getting the lady i am hypothetically married to and miss that.
so there is my back up to my statement.
and next time jack off instead of typing a stupid reply. better use of your hands.
Cause your a girl silly
You dont have the male conquest gene.
I don't sit on OT all day either -- but it isn't like it takes that much extra effort to post a reply that is meaningful and has support. So you might want to take that jacking off advice yourself, since YOUR reply was the stupid one.
alrighty guys, let's not get too fired up here! let's play nice
i don't really think i've ever "chased" a guy. i've never really been all too forthcoming, but i've let out some pretty blatant hints at guys that i've been attracted to. if i feel as though i'm wasting my time or the feeling's not mutual, i move on. actually, every guy that i've been with (dated) has caught me off guard, ie expressed interest when i least expect it.
i was jacking off, hence the short reply.
You're responding for yourself here. GOOD JOB!
Next time keep it that way instead of attempting to respond for someone else.
I love being married. Dating sucked and I hope it's something I don't have to do again. I don't have any cravings for 'the chase' at all.
And I think you should take your own advice there
No reason to call me a fucking liar though (and Dax, I know you weren't the one who did).
I hate games, so no I could care less about 'the chase'.
Nope, not one bit. Why play childish games, when life can go on in a much more enjoyable fashion?
Not married yet, but I know I'd be just as happy, if not happier, if I was
Who ever said it had to be childish, or a game? I personaly played games with any of the girls ive been with. Never really had to stoop to that level.