After a short "i don't want to talk to you for a while" period after a breakup early summer, we started hanging out. Eventually started making out, and then started having sex again. Over the course of the past month we've had sex 3 times, only once was it while intoxicated. She is a huge "its wrong to have pre-marital sex" person. While i wasn't her first, i was her first seriously sexually active relationship. Last night she confronted me and told me we can no longer have any type of physical relationship, because its too awkward for her. she said " i don't sleep naked with my normal friends, and i don't have sex with my normal friends, and i don't make out with my normal friends" She cited things such as "in the heat of the moment i can't stop myself, and i need to be with someone who cares enough about me to help me stop." Mind you she never verbally or physically attempted to get me to stop, and the couple of times she did say "we can't do this" i did stop. She said she resented me for things, but my argument is that i'm not responsible for her decisions, only my own. I told her I wanted to share sex with her because of how i genuinely feel for her, to which she responded "you aren't sharing it with me, you're imposing something i don't really want on me". She admitted she doesn't have the self control to stop in the heat of the moment, and i told her that that isn't my problem. I straight up told her i'm not responsible for that, and that she needed to take responsibility for her decisions and accept the consequences of them. That is part of being a mature adult. She made the point that if i really cared for her i'd listen to what she wanted, and thats to wait for marriage, or at least at this point salvage what she can of her chastity i suppose. I know this is extremely scattered, and i'll make some revisions after I wake up a little more this AM. I do feel bad, and i honestly never bothered to look at it from the point of view she was describing: that i don't really care for her because i'm imposing a physicality she apparently doesn't want. But is it really my bad? I mean, she is an adult, and she made advances just as much as i did. I don't feel she should resent me and be all pussy hurt about the situation because she doesn't harbor the self control that i do. I dunno, thoughts? I expect a lot of questions.