She fails to see the need for a gun. She hates that I have a shotgun. She hates that I'm buying a handgun. She states she doesn't need a gun, that her parents have never needed a gun. She claims that you can solve the need for a gun buy picking a better neighborhood to move into. She claims if we were to get married and have kids that I'd have to have two safes, one for the bullets and one for the guns. I informed her that police response time is incredibly high and that I wouldn't ask the robber / rapist / scumbag to wait until they arrive to commence a felony. I'm trying to explain that it's better to have and not need than need and not have. I asked why she doesn't throw her spare tire away , that it's not needed. I explained that I've never needed a spare tire, as I've never had a flat. I explained that my first vehicle, a jeep, didn't even have a spare tire, and I never needed one then either. I stated, that besides - if you're worried about a flat tire, why don't you just trade in your car for a better / more reliable / more expensive car, so you don't have that problem. Still , she fails to give. Anyone else have this problem?