Ok remember I said I wanted to mention two other things but I was falling asleep so I didn't? Here is one of them: There is something I have noticed here and there that one of my GFs was a part of for a while. That is, I will occasionally meet a very attractive woman who is smart, ambitious, successful (or, if you're still in college, one of those "driven" people who you know is eventually going to be successful), and every other good trait you can imagine, but who is friends with some super ghetto people. I don't understand. I mean, I know people like diversity, but I just don't get this. My gf was hot, smart, all those things I mentioned above, graduated with above a 3.5 GPA in MIS, almost immediately after graduation got a job with a great company where she still works today, I think (and this was in 2003 when the MIS market sucked fucking ass and there were mass interviews with 400+ people for 1 opening), etc., but her "best friend" was so ghetto I couldn't stand to talk to her for more than 30 seconds. Like "mmmhmm, you go girl" ghetto. Her other friends were uh... not the greatest people, either. Like the kind of people you wouldn't trust with your stuff. I was polite to them, but I was always like After graduation they pretty much stopped talking and she went on to get cooler friends that weren't ghetto, so that was awesome Can someone explain this to me? Throughout the last 7-8 years I will occasionally meet women like this, who are classy, smart, well-spoken, attractive, like overall high quality women, but their friends are so fucking ghetto, dumb, uneducated, actually talk like "errrbody up in hurrr," in trouble with the law, bankrupt, possibly on probation, etc. I don't get it. I try to avoid those kinds of people, not be best friends with them. Explain? Cuz I'm fucking lost.