i'm a junior in college and i've been in love with this girl since freshman year of high school. i asked her out a few times throughout high school, but we were really good friends and she kept using the "i dont want to ruin our friendship" excuse. so i've had gf's and whatnot over the years, but she has still been like the love of my life. every love song i've ever written (i'm a musician) has been either about her or inspired by her. so when we went to the same college, i thought i would have another four years to work my magic. the only thing is, i can't just grow a pair and tell her how i feel. so should i just stop being a bitch and tell her? after writing this, i realize that that's probably the best answer, but i wanted to ask complete strangers for their opinions.