I pose this question to any and all who have been in and are in long term relationships. What things make someone worth staying with? What things are worth leaving over? It can be something personal to you or something you concider to be universal. Examples: Do your partner have to be funny? What if they are poor? How about if they are Catholic? Do you need the freedom to flirt with others? Are you okay with the man being a stay at home dad? Etc. List your "must haves" and "deal breakers"!