My girlfriend of 10 years left me back in July, I was devastated and hated everything. I hated her and was mad every day for months. She got a new boyfriend, which pissed me off even more. blah blah blah. Anyway, she messages me the other day asking if we can still talk as friends, and I pretty much tell her to fuck off, do so for a few days. Then one day something clicks in my head, don't know what it was, but I felt bad for being an asshole...so I apologize and now i'm not mad anymore, i'm glad that she's found someone that makes her happy, and we can talk like the friends we used to be. Weird feeling.