Been with each other for 4 years. We fight all the time, but when we're not fighting we're fucking or shes trying to talk marriage. I dont understand her. I dont understand how she can talk about marriage when the day before she was screaming she hates me. On the outside it looks like a great relationship. we keep our problems behind closed doors and everyone says "I cant believe you guys are still together, thats so great" I believe this type of thing fuels her desire to keep it going. At the same time I believe neither of us has the balls to breakup with each other. We've come so close before, but she ususally wont let it happen. And I never stand firm. I just dont know how to end a relationship like this. I do still love her, and I believe she still loves me, but I just cannot see a future in this relationship even after all this time. The toughest part about this situation is the fact that when we are not fighting things are for very normal if not great. We have a great sex life and we get along well. But everytime a conversation goes south and ends up a fight, i cant help but think why i put up with it. So please, I welcome the comments. I know none of you can truely know what I go through, but if youve been in a similar situation I could use some advice.