Sorry this is long: I'd been seeing this guy for a few months and everything was fantastic. We saw each other three to four times a week, had loads of fun, no arguments, sex was great etc etc He has been nothing but honest with me about everything. He told me that his ex g/f from over a year ago had some stuff of his and was basically refusing to give it back. I told him to keep contacting her to get it. Last week I rang him and he blocked my call. I thought it was a bit odd but didn't worry. Then just before midnight he rang and told me that he'd been at his ex's house, to get his stuff and 'catch up'. He said he panicked when I rang and didn't know why he blocked the call. He said he had every intention of telling me he was going there, but thought it would be easier on me if he told me afterwards. He admitted he made a mistake, but I went nuts I was really nasty and I don't know why. The next day he said he couldn't bare hurting me and thought it would be better if we just remained friends. He said he wants me as his best friend. He said that seeing his ex made him realise he was 100% over her and he told her about me, but he didn't think it would work between us. He said there was nothing wrong with how we'd been going, he still has feelings for me and is attracted to me. He wants to keep seeing me, but only when he was satisfied I was over him so I don't get hurt any further. His reasons for thinking it won't work: 1) he doesn't think his mother will approve, because Im not a rich doctor and 2) he doesn't think he can give me want I want, which is crap. He knows his line of thinking is wrong but he said he can't change I figure I have pushed him too much and over reacted and it has completely scared him. I don't know what to do though. I have given him space and I have told him that I AM over him. It's all just so weird and awkward right now. Then last night he turned up out of the blue to watch me play basketball. I don't get it. Can I get him back?