dont know if this belongs her or in on-topic this chick is my best friend. she has this long-distance relationship with some dude she met on the internet in north carolina (she lives in illinois). she claims there is a really strong connection and she's basically head over heals in love with him. i hate the dude, he's a total dick/tool and control freak. anyway, they've known each other for about a year and he fucked his ex-gf whom he is living with. basically tells her up straight "oh yea, i fucked my ex, sorry." tries to blame her and shit for not being online constantly to talk with him. she takes the bait and blames herself. my friend is hurt bad, making herself sick over it, literally vomiting when she thinks about it. drinks hardcore for a couple days to try and forget about it. then she goes and fucks some guy 3 times over a 2 week period. and now they are back in love again claiming everyone makes mistakes, it was just a mistake, and people deserve second chances. how the fuck does this shit work?