Im so mad and hurt at the same time. Check it out. I was dating this girl for close to 6 months, we just split up recently but still talk almost everyday and had just started spending time together again. Thurs she was all over me, wanting me to go to lunch with her...then going out of her way to come visit with me at work and hang out for a little while. Things were going very well and I was happy. Friday the shit hit the fan. I was at work, and around 11pm she calls. "Mark, Im drunk and sick. Come take care of me! At this point she is upset and almost in tears." I tell her that if I can get off early I will. So I find out that she is in the car with a friend of hers, and she said she wants to come see me. I tell her cool, to come on up, then I hear her scream in the phone and the line disconnects. My immediate reaction was OH SHIT! I call back, no answer...I call back a few more times and no answer. I naturally freak out, and leave work early. Can't get ahold of her all night, can't get ahold of any of her friends. Im really worried at this point and start to think the worst. Saturday, I go by her place and her car is there but nobody answers the door. I call again, no answer. I call her friend again. I asked her if she had talked to her, she said she had and was fine. I mentioned what happened and that I was worried, she never said anything about a wreck to her. So I get pissed...really pissed. I tell her friend to tell her to call me, does she? Nope. She sends me a text message saying "Im fine, Im busy" I call her and tell her we need to talk. Today, she calls finally. I lay into her on the phone. First thing I say when I pick up the phone "thanks for finally getting around to calling." She says that she was in a wreck, it wasn't bad and she is fine. I ask her why she couldn't let me know that she was fine yesterday or even after it happened. "Friday I was drunk, and didn't feel like talking on the phone. I got a ride home after the wreck and passed out on the bathroom floor. Yesterday I didn't want to call because I knew this would happen. " I asked what would happen? "I knew we would get into a fight and Id end up getting hurt" I told her to think about how I felt. I was stressed out because I didn't know if she was hurt, I left work early and was running around like a chicken with its head cut off worrying about her. "Im sorry for putting you thru that." My last words to her were "you sit here and say to me that you care for me, but after this weekend it doesn't feel like it." and its true. Thats bullshit and Im not dealing with it anymore. I hope she feels really bad, thats something I wouldn't do to a person even if I hated them. Cliffs-girl gets into an accident, I can't find her...she is fine and never felt like calling to let me know she is ok until 2 days later.