So, there's this girl that is a friend of a friend that has been showing up to a lot of the same gatherings as me, an I've taken an interest in. She has always been kind of touchy feely and did some of the tell-tale signs (touching my elbow while laughing at something I said). Also shes kind of nerdy (+1). Just this night I had set a goal for myself to say something and at least get her number, but the timing/company never seemed to align correctly. So after being a pussy and letting walk away from the party without saying anything I just sent her a Facebook message (she had already added me as a friend) that said "I really enjoy spending time with you and wondered if you wanted to go do something sometime..." Was this the right thing to do? Or did I fuck my chances here?