I'm a M/33/DC area and am on the fence about having kids. This poses a problem to some of the girls I date, including my current one. I just don't know if I want to deal with all the problems and headache and lifestyle adjustments that children bring. I love to go out and party it up, and I see kids as the death rattle to my ways. I really want to hear from people who have done the whole married with children and from older people who haven't to see if either has regrets. Help me figure this one out. I don't want to be 45 and then go "gee, I wish I had kids" or Next year going "I hate being a parent! Shoot me!"