Well the reason I bring this up, is that I cant really seem to figure this out. I dont really need to worry so much because I do have a GF, but her preferences or reactions just leave me confused. First off, can we agree that generally women are more attracted to personality then physical appearence, where as men are the exact opposite? Now some things that get me confused is that some girls prefer "big" guys, because they are "fun to hug." I guess I fall under this catagory, im 6'6" tall, roughly 300lbs. Not trying to sound gross, but my gf seems to love my "tummy" lol as she calls it, I always feel bad cause I could use a few sit-ups every now and then. She seems to love that Im not super cut or thinner. However, she denies liking muscles on guys, and whenever I flex she goes crazy about it She says she never wants me to lose my "mini-belly" for whatever reason. I feel more of a fatass now, and worry she'll eventually get less attracted to me physically. She's starting to lose weight, and has done a pretty good job at it so far. Im just falling behind now. I dunno, its hard for me to even explain how she is when it comes to it. She says she dosnt care, but I told her that Im not goin to be one of those super overweight 500lb people. So back to the original question, what do the women of OT prefer when it comes to physical attraction?