Howdy Vag Been a little while since I have posted.... finally generated enough questions to warrant myself a post. (PS I am 20 and a sophomore in college) Here we go: I started using copehagen when I was about 15 and due to the nature of nicotine over the next 5 years my use of it went from casual to going through a can every 2-3 days. Realizing that this will obviously kill me, I have just quit a week ago and am trying to hold strong. My question about this "dipping", what negative sexual side effects have I most likely been experiencing as a result of this tobacco use? On top of that, if I stay true to my commitment about quitting, will all of the negative side effects leave? Question #2 : Kegels: I want to be able to last until I WANT to cum for oral and intercourse. If I practice kegels regularly, will I be able to achieve the stamina and control I desire? Are there any negatives to doing kegels? If kegels is definitely worth practicing, could someone please post a link to a *detailed* website that will explain everything I need to know to do kegels properly. Thank you in advance Question #3: Sex and relationships: I had been dating my ex girlfriend for about 3 years and from the start to finish have gone from practically tons of sex (oral/intercourse) to maybe just oral sex once a week at most.. She has been working about 40-50 hours a week (2 jobs) and I realize she has to be very tired. She never initiates any type of sex or ever seems in the mood to do anything while I am still very interested in sex with her. When I ask her for oral then if she doesnt feel like having sex with me she will usually get pissed off at me for asking. This situation had been going on for a month or two so i broke it off a week ago because I want to have sex more than once a week at most, and im not the cheating type, I am 20 for christsakes in my sexual prime is the way I view it. my question being: whats enough sex? whats too little sex? Was I right or wrong for breaking it up with this girl? I like her very much but I also feel like I want more sex than what I am currently getting.. I know this was a long post guys but I tried to format it nicely. Thanks for the read.