I had my tongue pierced on wednesday. Today is day 4 and my tongue is very swollen. It's so bad that the top ball is sunken into the top of my tongue. The bottom ball is indenting a little as well. I never had bleeding until today either. Two days ago, I had some white stuff coming out the bottom of the piercing. It was sort of sticky when I pulled it off. Is my tongue infected? What can I do? It's a 12ga 3/4" bar. Can I go longer to relieve some of the pressure?