I recently got my tongue pierced, which was last tuesday. I still have to wait another week to change it right? I'm assuming its a 14g and 5/8 bar... I guess thats the norm for it. (If I'm making any sense or if I'm right) When I do change it I want a smaller bar length, something that my teeth wont be killed on, and something less discreet then this metal ball. Websites would be great. Info be great.