my girlfriend whom i do love so much has a problem and she's also well aware of it. she's too attached to me and too dependent. we get to see each other on weekends only coz i was transferred in my job, we talk everyday sometimes for hours at a time. yet on weekends whenever i leave her place, she becomes depressed and sad when i leave. i can't leave out of town to visit friends and family without her throwing a fuss. i wish i could stay and be with her too but i don't beat myself up so much like she does. i just look forward to the next time i get to see her. but her? she cries and becomes an emotional wreck for a few days which isn't good for her. she stresses herself out over this. she loses sleep and doesn't have an appetite often where she won't eat. she asks me to stay and call in to work and as much as i'd love to do that, that's just not practical right now. and i think it's selfish of her to even ask me to do that. i'm out of ideas and i don't know what to do about this. i've suggested everything from a break from 'us' to her moving up here with me, which isn't feasible either. the idea of just cutting her loose completely has crossed my mind but i really do love this girl and don't want that at all. any help is appreciated.