OK this is kindof the opposite question of what the title might suggest. This is going to sound really cocky but: Do you think it's ever possible to be "too good looking" for your partner or potential partner? The girl that is essentially my GF now started out with her telling my friend that she thought i was hot. I met her, and while I didn't think she was all that great looking, I had just broke up with my ex, so I was like what the hell, and I slept with her. 8 months later I'm still sleeping with her. I came to like her personality and really enjoy her company. Our personalities dont have a lot in common, but she's always very agreeable with me, and we have great sex. Although physically I know I could "do better," she probably COULDN'T do better right now as far as looks + brains ( she's in the army, and hates all the men......and has no social life outside of it really, so the diversity of guys she meets is minimal). She KNOWS that I could do better, so she's always very willing to do whatever it is that I want to do, and never give me any shit cuz she's scared I'll get pissed off and end the relationship My other friends will sometimes give me the ol' "dont settle" and "you shoudl be out there meeting as many diff people as possible" including my PARENTS I'm 23, she's 20. When I met her 8-9 months ago, I had just come out of 2 relationships that lasted all 5 years i was in college. My plan at the time was to meet as many diff people as possible to figure out what kind of girls I liked.... :buttsex: A lot of my guy friends will take me out with them to meet girls cuz I increase their "firepower" cuz i'm "good looking" yet I've slept with less girls than all of them. One part of me feels like I'm wasting my youth and that I should "using" what I've got to meet the best girls I can find, and find the most impressive female (both looks + brains of course) Yet another part of me thinks i'm being a shallow asshole, and that if the girl is nice, why should I drop her just cuz i could be dating better looking girls? I get treated a lot better by her than I would by a "hot" girl who'd be self-absorbed and ready to pick up and leave at any moment..... I don't think that I"m all that great looking, but I know I'm a good total package, and I treat this girl very very well despite the fact she's "not in my league" long post, but, thoughts?