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So I asked that girl out from lecture and she said "I'm babysitting tonight, maybe another night"

Now this is pretty much a "no" and I'm wondering why. My friend says it was "too soon" since I knew her for 2 days but my rationale is that we're in a class of 150 people, I was lucky to even see her after class.

She seemed interested walking out of the building so I'm not really sure why it went the way it did. In retrospect, I probably should have asked her to come hang out this weekend. Instead, I asked her out to coffee tonight. Maybe that was too aggressive.

Thoughts? My game needs work:hsd:
 
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I took it as a "no" because she didn't say anything like "Well I'm free this day..." or "how about tomorrow night"

who gets asked out by someone and then says "not tonight"

And no, I'm a dick and didn't her number because I assumed she wasn't interested. Guess I'll give it another go next tuesday
 
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I was also pressured for time. I have class right after and she doesn't, so it wasn't even like I could keep walking with her. She goes the opposite way
 

m45

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May 2, 2005
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worth another ask, but you could have said "well whats your number ill set up another time"
 
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I totally should have. Essentially I was a pussy and didn't want to come off like a creep. Hot girl too:hsugh:
 
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Whatever, I'll throw her a smile and go from there. Most girls who are into me appreciate how ridiculous I am
 

m45

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if shes hot this probably happens on average once every 2 weeks so trust me, i doubt she'll hold grudges.

Being super nice will come off as pathetic though
 

m45

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id ignore her as beer says and than in a week or so try again if you still want
 

m45

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its just if you keep being supernice it never gives you the opportunity to try again, dont be mean, just dont act overly interested.

i still feel what you got was a no, based solely on "MAYBE" another night. If she said "how about another night" thats very different
 
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exactly what I said bro. "Maybe another night" sounds like " I'm being nice instead of saying no".

Two sides to the coin I guess. Thanks for the advice by the way.
 

Run N. Gun

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Aug 10, 2004
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Just ask her out again. Ask her if she'd like to get coffee (or whatever) sometime. If she says yes, then ask her what day works best for her. If she says no, then you know you're done. No more second guessing. :)
 
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haha no problem. I actually posted that already but still don't know how to embed
 

Silmatharien

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Maybe she didn't suggest another day because, like you said, you've only known her for a couple days. You may not have built a big enough attraction yet. I say try again though.
 

m45

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May 2, 2005
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exactly what I said bro. "Maybe another night" sounds like " I'm being nice instead of saying no".

Two sides to the coin I guess. Thanks for the advice by the way.

i agree with you, but shes a hot chick so she gets asked out 100 times a year.

I dont think its at the point of embarrassment yet to ask again.
 

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