I know you guys will crack jokes but I expect it. My current gf had a fucked up past. She was with this one bf 2 years ago who was abusive. It was going on for 8 months. One incident he grabbed her by the bangs and slammed her head on the wall. Many times he would pull her hair, slap her, stupid shit like that. She is over it now, I mean it was 2 years ago. But what kills me is that yesterday she told me she deserved to be slapped by me. I was upset and thinks its okay for me to hit her. I'm guessing she thinks this way because her ex got away with it. So now I'm wondering if I should teach this punk a lesson?