Okay, so I've got some questions. I'm shopping for a toy for my fiance and I'm kind of hung up on what to look for. To narrow it down, I'm referring to anal toys...mostly things that will massage the prostate or give a similar effect. So while browsing I'm noticing that most of those toys seem to maintain a length of 3.75"-4.5"; is that a size I should keep in mind while toy shopping? So far I've got (for choices): Aneros: The most obvious choice, but also the most expensive ($48), and the more expensive the toy is, the longer it'll have to wait before being bought. Mens Pleasure Wand: This seems like a cheaper alternative, but I googled for reviews and found none. While it seems interesting, I don't want to spend $20 if it's going to be a pain in the ass (pun intended) to use. Standard Curved Plug: By far the cheapest option. Any plug that's curved properly to hit the spot. So...looking for opinions on any/all of those options. Any help narrowing it down (or specific toy suggestions) would be appreciated. I'm not worried if he finds this thread since he knows that I've been planning to get him a toy at some point. I could have just taken the easy route via finger, but I keep long nails.