my gf and i are goin on a ski trip for a week in about 10 days. we arent able to have sex or have done anything for the last 5 months since we live in seperate homes and work.. this is for our 2 year anniversary - we will obviously catch up on the love making but is there anything i can do to spice things up since we probably wont be able to do anything after the trip for awhile. we will obviously have sex and try diff positions.. oral/hand stimulation for both of us.. ive rubbed her clit for her to orgasm but havent had any luck fingerin her.. whats the best way to finger a girl.. most times she prefers that i just kiss her down there. i thought about getin sex toys.. vibe or dildo she said she liked the idea of a cock ring too.. problem is that we both dont feel comfrotable having items like these shipped to our house... and i also dont wont to weird her out or make her think im a freak by gettin these toys. any advice?