For the past few months, it seems that I've been in a funk when it comes to women. I've been meeting a few girls here & there that seem cool/interesting/hot/etc., but things never seem to work out. In the past I've had no problems meeting girls/getting dates/messing around. Lately I haven't been able to get anything together. I'll meet a girl at a party, get her phone number, then nothing materializes. Either she doesn't answer the phone, never returns calls, or just doesn't show up to a date. Frankly, I'm getting a little frustrated. I'm not a bad looking guy (though I'm no Brad Pitt), and I've been told that I have a personality that girls are attracted to (dark humor/sarcastic/slightly cocky). Lately, I feel my attitudes toward women changing. Whenever I'm at a party, club, or bar...I seem to have this negative attitude towards girls. I see them dressed in revealing clothing...and something just goes off in my head. I know that I could approach them, but I don't, because I don't want to boost their egos. I don't want to give them the pleasure of turning me down and going to tell their friends about it. I see them as bitchy and as teases. And it's gotten to the point where I approach almost no girls at parties because I think they are going to reject me and get an ego boost. Now I don't think this of ALL girls that I see at parties, but certainly the majority of girls (2/3 or so maybe). Or, if I am interested in them (and think they might actually be non-bitchy and actually cool), that nothing's going to come of it because they won't return my phone calls. Example: last night I really needed to get out of the house. For the life of me, I couldn't find a girl that was willing to take a study break for a while and go get coffee or dinner or something. I literally went through my phone, and even called girls I hadn't seen in 4-5 months or more. Nothing. WTF do I do?