It became apparent in my first serious relationship that I can have trust issues. It didn't help that my dad was an asshole and at one point stole money from me as a kid. I'm sure it didn't help either that the ~1 year long relationship was long distance, and even better, with a young immature girl. That was a while ago, at least 6 months have gone by. I've become a lot more easy going and less controlling, but I still believe I have a problem trusting. Just started recently going out with a very open girl, shes awesome. I guess what I'm concerned about is alcohol. We both drink on occasion, her maybe more than me, but when she drinks she gets very drunk even if she hasn't had much. I first found that out when I had her over and made her a drink, had to carry her into my room and make her go to sleep. Back when she was dating an asshole a few months ago (when I first met her), she got somewhat drunk when I was with her and her then bf. She seemed farily flirty with me, sort of led me to believe she wanted to do something. So now we're going out, and she's mentioned she's never cheated and never will. I believe her, but when she gets alcohol in her system I feel like this might not hold true. I think the problem is just the alcohol and maybe not me, I'm not sure, but I think I'm going to ask her to not drink anymore unless with me, and I'll do the same. Is this smart? Any opinions on anything? All advice is welcome, thanks. PS: I'm 16, she's 18.