i've never asked advice online before, but i really don't know what else to do. i broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years about 3 months ago bc i wasn't happy. these 3 months have been a crazy mix of trying to be friends, hooking back up, not speaking to eachother, etc. it's been all kinda up in the air. finally about a week ago we foreal ended things. like can't see eachother or speak, delete phone numbers, block each other out of our lives. this has hit me so hard. i have been just totally spaced out, disfunctional, physically sick to my stomach, i hyperventilate and cry, get completely silent and dazed all of sudden, i can't concentrate or do summer school or work, and feel incredibly depressed all the time. what i'm wondering is whether these are "getting-over-a-serious-relationship-is-really-painful" feelings or they are "idiot-you-are-supposed-to-be-with-him" feelings. ugh, i need to figure this out before it is too late. if it isn't too late already. help?