Hi everyone. I'm a long time lurker, rare poster. I dated this guy very casually for a month back in October. We slept together twice. Then I got sort of clingy and I think thats why things ended. Since we had a lot of mutual friends, we remained cool. Fast forward to last Saturday. It was my birthday and he drove me to a club in order for me to get drunk and not have to drive. At the end of the night, I decided I couldn't go home because I couldn't let my parents see me drunk. So he took me to his place so I could sleep. I was about to doze off on the couch but then he took me to his bed and said it would be more comfortable. Well, he put his arms around me in bed, as a friendly gesture and I leaned in to kiss him. We started making out. He wanted to have sex, but I was on my rag so I just gave him a bj. It has now been a week and I haven't heard from him other than a text message wishing me happy birthday on the actual day. I texted him on Thursday to go to they gym because we usually go together every other day. He said he was busy with finals and would start again the following week. I really want to be with this guy. But I don't know how I should handle this. Should I text him again after his finals are over? I don't want to come across as clingy. Or should I wait for him to make contact. And when we do, should I talk about the one night stand? How do I bring it up? I kind of suck at talking about my feelings so just wanted some pointers about how I should handle things going forward. CLIFF NOTES: 1. Dated guy back in October. I was clingy & things ended. 2. Got drunk and stuff happened between us last weekend 3. He's been MIA, partly because he's busy with finals 4. Want a relationship with this guy, so what should I do now?