i've been hanging out with my neighbor a lot. she's 21, was in a sorority but doesn't like it too much. lives with 2 sisters and a guy tyler. at first she seemed to be pretty into me, real flirty. i dug it. i'll go over and hang out. her roomates don't seem to like me too much cuz i'm not a frat dude. last night i'm hangin with jessi (the girl who seems to be into me) and i had just found out the night before that her ex is someone she's still in love with. she actually told me she's waiting for him to say he wants to get back together with her. he was abusive towards her from what i've been told. i mentioned us smoking pot in front of him and she freaked out and kept telling me i say the worst things to the wrong people and he couldn't find out. after spending some time in here i realized these were huge red flags. then she was holding this dudes hand last night who is a dude she's been friends with a year and a half (poor guy doesn't even realize he's friendzoned). then she tells me how she thinks i'm amazing and wants me to hang out, but that her roomate doesn't like me. then we're playing beer pong and her roomate kicked me off the table after we won because she doesn't like me. and i'm still being polite at this point. finally, after all the sorority girls are doing their thing being bitches, i finally just turn into that guy. i just start talking shit whenever the situation allows. then at the end of the night, after me winning beer pong against one of the whores and the girl who is my friend, this dude starts talking shit to me about smoking pot. telling me he's in med school and that smoking weed is bad for you. i explain to him that i agree with him 100 percent. i tell him how it's horrible for your lungs, contains carcinogens, but then said i only really recommend it out of a vaporizer. at the mention of a vaporizer he starts going on about how i'm so dumb that i should have never graduated high school, and then actually said something about how i'm gonna walk into a wall. i dunno if i should feel bad about being a dick to these people. i mean they were treating me like shit for no reason (even the girl who lives there i'm friends iwth said that). i feel bad, but at the same time i've learned that i need to take pride in myself, and i will defend myself. should i feel bad? sorry this was long and rant like, but i had a long night, and just needed to get this off my chest.