Well Vag, as a lot of you know I joined the military recently and am about to leave for basic training. This weekend was the last time I had drill before training. Drill before training is just run by all the recruiter NCO's in the area to help get the privates ready for basic. In all there are like 10 NCO's running the show. One of these NCO's is a pretty laid back guy and he's always really nice to everyone (never makes us do pushups, lol). This weekend he came up to me about halfway through drill and asked was I mad at him (???) I said "Uh no, what?" He said "well you haven't talked to me all drill and we've been here 5 hours already." I said "Oh well sorry I'm not really feeling well right now I have a cold." At the end of the day when they announced everyone who was going to leave for basic before the next drill he came up to me again and gave me his business card and told me good luck and to email him if I ever needed anything. I didn't think anything of it because like I said this guy just seems like a nice guy. I put the card in my bag and haven't thought of it since. Well today I got a random text message that said "Hey Lady, it's *****." I said "What's up Sarg, I'm at work selling some douchebag a Voyager." (He just bought a voyager phone a couple of months ago and was asking me about it a while back bc he knows I work for Verizon). He said "Why's he a douchebag? Wait.. it's because he isn't me, right?" At this moment some weird alarm went off in my head and I realized that something just did not sit right. So I texted him back and said "How did you get my phone number?" He said "Off the roster. Wanted to tell you good luck before you take off." I didn't respond. He said "Is that a bad thing? Hope I didn't piss you off by texting you." I didn't respond. So now I'm just kind of weirded out and I talked to my boyfriend about it (he's also and NCO but not a recruiter or above me in any way). First he said that I should report it to someone. I don't want to get him in trouble but I know there are some serious rules against what he just did (took my information off a roster to send me a text message... he is not my recruiter). I don't want to confront him about it because it's always weird to tell someone to stop hitting on you when they haven't ACTUALLY hit on you (sort of like what Alaya was saying in her thread a while back). My boyfriend suggested I send him a text back that says "sorry, my boyfriend Sgt. **** really doesn't think it's cool for me to text you or any other NCO's." My thinking is if I just completely ignore him that he will get the picture and hopefully never try to contact me again. I feel completely stupid for not realizing anything weird was going on before but sometimes these things just don't register with me until it may be too late. What do you guys think I should do at this point?