end of the thread was like this: So anyways, I ignored the message and she didn't end up going to the party. I ignored that too and talked to her yesterday to give her $20.00 for a football ticket I sold for her... pretty much carried on a conversation as if nothing had ever happened. Today I go to lunch with her friend and she starts asking me "why didn't you answer her message?" "what's up with you and her?" Then she started disagreeing with her friend's message and saying she shouldn't have questioned herself like that. She pretty much tells me that the girl was asking me to tell her that I think it's stupid not to date because of my ex. I explain that I didn't reply because I had accepted her decision and though she did ask me what I thought, I didn't want to have to convince her to date me or anything. I wanted it to be her decision. I've got nothing going on right now so I might give it another shot. Didn't feel much for her before but we'll see. Plus, if she still doesn't want to date, i've got an ok chick that's been hinting at things the past week.