Pic? Name? Matthew Don Thomas Age? 24 Gender? Male Ethnicity? Caucasian Religious Affiliation? Agnostic Siblings? One brother. One half-sister from my dad who is at least 10 years older and who I NEVER see. Ages of Siblings? 23 (We are 11 months apart). See above for the age of the half-sister. Where raised? Lisbon, Iowa (itty bitty town of about 2000 people) Level and place of education? BA in Psychology and Applied Philosophy, Mount Mercy College in Cedar Rapids, IA. Occupation? Working at a daycare right now, looking to get a job at the University of Iowa Hospital Hobbies? Bowling, pool, video games, home theater, tv, movies, hanging out with friends, reading, intelligent debate/discussions…pets, animals, learning about things that interest me (Wikipedia is my friend!) Sexual preference? Heterosexual Measurements? 5 feet, 5 inches tall. 90 pounds, not sure on exact measurements of endowment, I’m average. Best experience with SO's? First time having sex (and then the regular sex for the rest of the relationship) Worst experience with SO's? Breakup of the first relationship, when my SO and I both realized that I was starting to like someone else more than the gf. Sad, but a relief at the same time. Fantasy Date? I don’t really have a fantasy date per se, unless you count the one where I am with a gorgeous, perfect for me woman and win it big at the casino… Tell us about your childhood? Some stuff I don't remember, but you might find interesting: I was born 3 months early at less than 2 pounds. I had surgery performed on my head to to plates of my skull growing together in a weird way that would have caused brain damage. So I now have a bumpy head. I also had ankle surgery (well, on my Achilles Tendon) of my right leg due to the tendon being too tight. In second grade, I was diagnosed with ADHD. Not too much else to tell. Went to school, listened to what my parents told me, did homework, etc. I would often take a book to school and read during recess. Nothing else really stands out as being worthy of noting. What do you think contributed to your like/dislike of women or men? Hormones, genetics, culture, etc. Don’t want to turn this into a debate over sexual orientation. Best Relationship? First relationship. So nice and fun to experience all the firsts with someone else who was going through the same thing…first kiss, first touches, first sex, etc. Worst Relationship? Wasn’t a relationship per se, but I fooled myself into thinking it was. I was kind of seeing this high maintenance girl and didn’t realize that she was being slightly demeaning and disrespectful towards me. Was not too bad, but it was a learning experience. Are your siblings like you at all in their relationships? Probably, but we don’t exactly tell each other every detail about our relationships. How open minded are you? Sexually? Not so much. Non-sexually? Well, I’d like to say I’m open-minded, but tolerant would probably be a better description. I am fine with most things people choose to do, but I also tend to distance myself from those who are vastly different from me. Mostly consists of a “You do your thing, I’ll do my thing, and we’ll all be fine” type of attitude. Have you ever been involved in a 3some? No What do you look for in another partner? Compatibility. I could write a book about all the things I want in a partner, but we probably all know them…similar personality/interests, sense of humor, physical attraction, etc. Do you think a persons promiscuity or lack there of has to do with their childhood? It depends. I definitely think that being exposed to sexual stuff at an inappropriate age can mess up a person, but your average kid? I don’t see it having that big of an impact. I think parenting is one of the biggest influences on promiscuity in teenagers. Have you used online sites for the reasons of getting sex or dates or both? Yes, nothing exciting to tell about it though. What's your favorite body part of the opposite sex? Breasts Describe your type of partner? Ideal type? Shorter than me (probably around 5-2 or 5-3), C or D cup, long hair, love of physical contact, drug and disease free, no children, no major emotional baggage (divorce, mental illness, psycho exes, etc). Intelligent, successful, independent, mature. It would almost be easier to describe by the process of elimination/disqualification. What type of partner you actually date? Any woman that I find reasonably attractive and can get along with. You never know who you might click well with, so why limit myself. Dates don’t always have to be super intense Any words of advice for the Vag lurkers? Don’t put up with shit from people. I don’t mean that in the juvenile way, just that you should not allow yourself or allow other people to get you in shitty situations. If a partner is causing tons of drama, GTFO of it immediately. When posting, please use proper grammar and syntax.