Name: Christian B. A. Dunham I’ve got a plethora of nick names. Chesticles, 2nd Breakfast, C BAD (initials), C-Cups, Muffin, Lil Fella, Scuba Steve, Caveman, Age: 28 Gender: Male Ethnicity: White/Caucasian Religious Affiliation: Baptized Lutheran but I claim to be a Deist or something similar. Siblings: Brother (Jordan) Ages of Siblings: 26 Where were you raised? Born in Oregon but have lived in New Mexico for around 22 years of my life. Level and place of education? Some college. I have an AS Degree (Whoop dee doo) in Electronics Design and went further at University of New Mexico in Computer Science, but decided that college just wasn’t for me. At least not at the time. I’m very likely to go back now that I’ve settled down a bit. Occupation? US Navy Rescue Swimmer (and Electronics Technician) Hobbies? I’m a jack of all trades really. I dable in many things and become good at those things but never excel in anyone of them. So with that… Weight lifting/body building Running swimming biking (motorcycle, ride a 07 GSXR 600) skiing snowboarding electric guitar (thrash metal) shooting reading movies Avid concert attendee (been to well over 200) … Sexual preference? Straight Measurements? Ummmmmm… I have about a 44 inch chest and a 32 inch waste (I’m very top heavy, 5’5’’ @ 195lbs and around 12-14% body fat) Best and worst experiences with SO's? Best: Ummmmm hmmmm, hard decision. I have a lot of good ones but I suppose it would be with my most recent Ex where we drove 4 hours to Raleigh, NC to see Trans-Siberian Orchestra and eat at The Pit (Famous BBQ). Was a really good night. Worst: Probably when I had to break up with my BFF (we’re good buddies now). I had become complacent in the relationship and left her and she was a wreak. Being that we lived together it was really hard since I had no place else to go I had to stay on the couch a couple days. Not to mention the reason I left her is because I became interested in some other girl who turned out to be a dumb B****. Anyway, yeah… that whole experience just broke my heart and is probably one of the reasons we’re so close now. Fantasy Date? I don’t really have one. I suppose a date in Rome, Italy, would be pretty cool. I dunno, I’m very much a romantic at heart although I’ve trained myself to hide that from most people so maybe dinner by candle light on a boat out to sea (not a Cruise, a small boat w/ just the two of us). Tell us about your childhood? I was pretty much a normal kid up until middle school/HS. Up until that point I had played baseball, swam a lot (I’m an excellent swimmer), was big into out doors type things. Then when I hit HS my friends changed I got heavy into nerdy stuff and video games. This contributed into me being fairly heavy in HS and remaining a virgin until after I got out. Now that I hit the gym, run, swim and am a rescue swimmer… I go back home and people come up to me and say “What the hell happened too you….”. Most of them are jealous. What do you think contributed to your like/dislike of women or men? I actually don’t know. My father and mother were never really adamant about us dating. My father was more of the bread bringer and was always working. My mother was… well a mother so being raised much by my mother I probably turned out a bit more girly in my earlier years. When I hit college was when I really started talking to females and becoming comfortable starting up random conversations with them (not to mention lost my virginity) so… I guess I could answer this question as ‘It was my parents influences’ or a lack their of perhaps. Best Relationship? My best relationship was probably my first LTR. I was really into her and she was really into me. Both her parents really liked me, and we just had fun together doing absolutely nothing. It did end very badly. Worst Relationship? I would say my first relationship. Her name was Jessica and she was just all about me and I got sick of it after awhile. It came down to her pretty much living with me after like 2 months and I just got tired of her extremely fast. At the time I was fairly new to dating and decided the best way to break it off was to just stop talking to her period. Childish, I know. Are your siblings like you at all in their relationships? No, my brother is very different. He has absolutely no game, not that I do (I just be myself and that seems to work just fine) and he looks nothing like me. I regularly get told that I’m the better looking of the two of us, however, I tend to go after less attractive girls than he does because I enjoy their personalities more. I guess you could say those type of women seem more real and down to earth. How open minded are you? Depends on the situation, but usually… VERY Have you ever been involved in a threesome? Had a chance but gave it up to be with another girl. Not disappointed at all. What do you look for in another partner? I of course have to be attracted to them, but what really gets me is the down to earth personality. The girl I’m currently seeing is very attractive in the face, but not so much in the body but her personality just drives me wild. Do you think a person’s promiscuity or lack thereof has to do with their childhood? Not at all. I would actually attribute it more to failed past relationships where one got really really hurt. Have you used online sites for the reasons of getting sex or dates or both? Myspace back in the day… but other than that, no. What's your favorite body part of the opposite sex? Nice butt…. Mmmmmmmhmmmmm Describe your type of partner? I have many different types, not too chosey. Like I said, I have to find you attractive in some way, but if you got an awesome personality… that’s even better. What type of partner you actually date? I actually wouldn’t say I have a specific type. Like I said, I’m kind of more like a female in that someone’s personality can win me over. Any words of advice for the Vag lurkers? Why not give us a few posts here and there? You’d be surprised some of the good advice you can get in here. Lets see… Fear of the unknown is your worst enemy. Everyone gets rejected, just shrug it off and go find another.