Name? Gordon. Most of my friends call me Gordy. As you'll see later I was born in Italy. How did I get such a dorkie English name? My father was in love with Flash Gordon comics [FONT="]Age? 32. 33 in November [/FONT] [FONT="]Gender? Male[/FONT] [FONT="]Ethnicity? Italian. My entire family as far back as I can date is Italian. Born and raised there. Parents up and moved me to the US when i was 13. [/FONT] [FONT="]Religious Affiliation? Raised Roman Catholic. Now Agnostic.[/FONT] [FONT="]Siblings? 1 sister. She is 52. As my mom puts it "You were a pleasant surprise".[/FONT] [FONT="]Ages of Siblings? Oops..... 52.[/FONT] [FONT="]Where were you raised? North of Milan close to the Alps until I was 13. Moved to SA TX for 2 months. Then.... near Plant City, FL. Talk about a culture shock.[/FONT] [FONT="]Level and place of education? BA in Physical Therapy which I no longer use.[/FONT] [FONT="]Occupation? Claims Manager for a large auto ins company. Been here for 9 years now.[/FONT] [FONT="]Hobbies? Huge music lover (mostly Metal but also love Queen, Tom Petty, Tricky, Brand New, etc).[/FONT] Trail riding on my mountain bike. Running. Lifting. Getting tattooed if you call that a hobbie. Sports. Especially soccer and baseball. Drinking whiskey. [FONT="]Sexual preference? Straight. [/FONT] [FONT="]Measurements? 5'8, about 155 lbs.[/FONT] [FONT="]Best and worst experiences with SO's?[/FONT] Best.... Probably any time I spent with my recent ex. from going to vegas, to a cruise, to key west, to just laying around the house. i still remember very well the day she told me she loved me. worst... when my ex wife decided to tell me she wanted a divorce while we were on our 1st night of our second anniversary cruise. talk about an uncomfortable next few days. [FONT="]Fantasy Date? [/FONT] Dont know if i really have a "fantasy" date. i have always wanted to take a SO to my home town to show her where i grew up. have yet to have the opportunity to do so. [FONT="]Tell us about your childhood? [/FONT] I was extroverted and very popular in italy. when i was blasted w. the news of moving to the US i became very angry w. my parents. i knew no one there (except for my sis who had married an american), couldnt speak english, and just plain did not understand why we needed to move. was never told why until i turned 24 and a huge event took place. when i moved here i was placed in ESOL to learn english through a spanish teacher. talk about a cluster fuck. they knocked me back one grade. allowed my sis to come in and translate. of course i was well known in school but was poked fun of a lot bc of my accent. low self esteem in junior HS and HS. i really did not start to become who i am today until after my 1st year in college. now im pretty much back to my OLD self of being mostly extroverted and popular amongst my peers. [FONT="]What do you think contributed to your like/dislike of women or men? [/FONT] i honestly cannot answer this. my dad was distant and more of a provider than an actual father figure. due to news of move to US i grew to dislike my parents a lot. it got better but deep down i still resented them. until i found out the reason why. i was a loner for a while as a kid. so i really do not know what has shaped what i do and do not like about women. [FONT="]Best Relationship? [/FONT] With a SO? although it ended poorly i still consider it to be my recent ex. probably says very little about my success in relationships [FONT="]Worst Relationship? [/FONT] The ex-wife. not bc she was a bad person... although some may consider some of her actions as such... but bc we simply did not match as a couple. i kick myself for not sticking to my guns and leaving her when i attempted to break up w. her a couple times. [FONT="]Are your siblings like you at all in their relationships? [/FONT] not at all. my sis has been in one LTR. it was physically abusive and it took her 20 yrs to leave him. she is high strung and argumentative in her RS. where i am very mellow. [FONT="]How open minded are you?[/FONT] Very. im open to anyones religious views. sexual views. political views. to each their own. probably why i have such a large "variety" of friends. [FONT="]Have you ever been involved in a threesome? [/FONT] Nope. [FONT="]What do you look for in another partner? [/FONT] physical attraction. communication. humor. independence. [FONT="]Do you think a person’s promiscuity or lack thereof has to do with their childhood? [/FONT] hmmm.... it could. but for the most part, regardless of childhood, we shape our own lives. [FONT="]Have you used online sites for the reasons of getting sex or dates or both? [/FONT] yes. well.... i never went to one thinking "im gonna get laid". but i have met a few girls and slept w. some. [FONT="]What's your favorite body part of the opposite sex? [/FONT] body wise > legs, ass, stomach. Facial > eyes and lips. [FONT="]Describe your type of partner? [/FONT] responsible but likes to cut loose. can have fun where ever as long as w. good people. great sense of humor. physically > 5'5 - 5'8, slender or toned. [FONT="]What type of partner you actually date? [/FONT] long term? the one mentioned above. short term? im pretty "open" i guess you could say [FONT="]Any words of advice for the Vag lurkers?[/FONT] be honest w. your SO. communicate. if your gut tells you something is wrong there probably is. address it vs "letting go". never think someone will change for you. if you do not match in certain important areas know when to let go vs wasting time.