Heeeeey so I got mine done in a city I dont live in, so I'm not sure where to go to find a good local piercing shop to ask questions. I figured I'd ask some here, as I'm sure some of you are probably familiar. I was pierced with 14g curved stainless surgical steel barbell, I believe. How long should I wait until I mess with jewelry/stretching? I got pierced with 14g, should I move up to a 12g? What are some good, reputable websites to buy jewelry from? Where can I find uncommon jewelry, such as pearl beads? (I think the idea of having a pearl in my oyster is comical) If I buy any beads for 14g externally threaded, will they all fit? Is there anything else I need to be aware of? Are there any materials that I should definitely stay away from? Barbell length? What is the best choice for the best clitoral stimulation? (I'm not at this point concerned about being "too stimulated") I was told to give it an epsom salt bath once a week... and then another person told me to do a sea salt bath. Which one is it? How often? Anything else worth knowing?