Just needed to get something off my chest. So there's this girl that I am absolutely crazy about. We've been friends for about a year but I've had feelings for her that go beyond friendship. Anyway I recently told her how I felt after a party I threw at my place. She was in a hurry but seemed receptive to this and said that we'd talk about it later because she was running late meeting with her parents. Anyway here's where my problem is. At the same party the night before, she kissed a guy there. She knows that I saw and told me that she felt bad about it and even told her cousin the same thing. I happen to be friends with the cousin and her boyfriend who is actually one of my best friends. They've both been trying to discourage me from pursuing her because they say she isn't "girlfriend material." Apparantly the cousin is saying that the girl I like is talking to at least one other guy aside from party guy. To make things even more complicated another one of my best friends dated her for about a month. Their relationship ended because he got tired of her talking to one of her "friends" over the phone so much. Once my friend and the girl broke up she started dating her phone friend. Now I've talked with her before and she's always said that when she's in a relationship she's in it 100%. It's been a few days since the party and I still haven't called because of all of this. Honestly I thought that I'd be too old to have to deal with something like this. Like I said, I'm really into this girl. Haven't felt this way about anybody since high school. I'm really confused and don't know what to do anymore but I know that I want to still go after her. Am I crazy for this? Thanks to anybody who reads this. If you guys have any input or advice I'm open to it.