I'm a virgin and I hear plenty of things about sex, though when it's boiled down to it -- sex seems complicated, and I tend to worry about how would I please a girl. 1. Is sex fun, or is sex a lot of work? I mean do I have to push all the right buttons, or is the girl most likely to help me out? (Assuming she's a non virgin) I have kind of a fear of I will just be a complete mess and a let down. 2. After sex, I've heard that some people do take showers, would it be uncommon then to make out in the shower, just after sex? Any additional info is welcome.