Ill try to make this as short as possible and to the point. Basically Ive been dating a girl for almost 4 years now. Her last 3 years of high school and now the first year of college. The plan always was that she was gonna move in with me out of high school, but I told her many times she didnt have to, to only do it if she was ready to. I didnt want her to miss out on the experience of living on your own and hate me for it later on. Well when it came down to it she did move out on her own, not wiht me. And it really kinda hurt, actually. But I moved past it and knew it was for the best that way. But now she has been on her own for about a year and still no word or thought of moving in together. I feel that the relationship is pretty much goign nowhere. Im almost 23 now and am thinking its about time to get serious and maybe get engaged, have some kids in a year or so. And I just dont think she wants that. Now onto what pushed me over the edge of breaking it off. Bascially the last couple months I dont think we've spend any alone time together other than sleeping at each others houses once in a while. Used to be every night almost. The reasoning behind that is that she always goes and hangs otu with a particular friend of hers (female) while I am at work or am busy with something, which is fine and great. But then say I get off work at 4 and am busy til 5:30 or so with stuff, I give her a call and I basically end up with one of two options everytime. 1. go over to her house so that we can go over to her friends house (same friend) 2. she is at teh friends house, come over there. Now that would be find if it wasnt ALL THE TIME. I can only take so much of this friend, like maybe everyother day or every 3 days is enough for me, its nothign personal, its just that I dont really like to hang out with teh same peopel day after day. The only person Ive really found that I can stand to be around everyday was the g/f, but now I broke it off. I basically told her if thats the only 2 options I have to every see her, I dotn want to be in a relationship like that. A couple NEEDS to have alone time, and not just in the bedroom sleeping. I really love this girl and really did want to marry her and move away somewehre together, but I just dont know if its gonna work. Im pretty much last priority on her list. Ill admit she isnt always my first priority, but I dont chose my friends over her day after day after day. So basically I either want to be with her and make things right and have a good relationship, wait for her to graduate college and get married, move to a different town, get settled in and then have kids. Or the other thing woudl be to save up some money as fast as I can and move out of this town on my own. What do you guys think I should do?