1. i put my 96D up for trade for a G17. some guy asked me how much i want for it cash, i said 400+shipping. he replied how about 400 shipped, it should be 10 bucks for shipping. 2. i said i would have to check shipping and get back to him. (turned out to be more like 25-30) 3. so i said if he wants to do 400 shipped i would have to check for gun store trades around here over the weekend since i initially wanted to trade. 4. looked at gun store and all they had was 2nd gen. 5. so i told him i will do it but since the shipping is actually $25 i would like to keep my hogue grips. 6. today he replied that i made him feel like i was his 2nd choice and he doesn't want the gun anymore so he got butt hurt, and i can't help but feeling like a bad boyfriend? did i do wrong? it would only be bad if i said SOLD, then nope nvm found a higher bidder, opps buyer back out u still want it?