Since I can remember, my parents have put me through a roller-coaster.Being abusive in every which way...physical, mental, emotional. My mother is remarried and I used to get along with the guy,even call him Dad,but he has become a passive,reserved participator in my mother's ruthless and manipulative actions. I have recieved no support from them or any offers for the wedding (financially).He never even called to congratulate us.or ever called me once to see how I am doing in life. My mother has only cared for claiming me as a dependent on taxes to make money from it,even though I have not lived home in almost a year and more than support myself with my own living (i'm 24 years old). Thing is, my real father is estranged.He used to abuse me and I don't remember everything because my mother has told me many stories which I wouldn't be surprised are lies. Every convo I have with my mother brings me to tears. How do I decide to not invite them?Do I walk myself down the aisle?Do I just suck it up?