I was wondering if any of yall could shed some serious light in there. My problem is this, I've dating a couple of girls / women in the past couple months, and we get in the mood and start fooling around.... around the time I get to putting on the condom I start to lose my erection. I'm physically attracted to these girls but its weird, I refuse to have sex w/o a condom for fear of disease and having kids at my age (22). Newayz, last night we were fooling around and she took off her shirt and had her nipples peirced and she talks dirty to me and such, its really sexy. This problem I'm having has happend a few other times, sometimes when I don't masturbate for a couple days then I can keep it up and make it go for awhile but its not always garenteed. Anyone know of something i can try or things about this recent problem.