I had a PA stretched to 6GA before I got my 12GA apadravya. Because of this the bottom hole is much bigger than the top. I was hanging out with a lady friend and she was grinding against me and it caused the bottom ball of the barbell to go up inside the hole and i "lost it". At first i thought the bottom ball fall off, but after playing around with a little bit of pain i was able to pop it back out the bottom hole. Should i get a different barbell for this? I got the piercing back in early July, and i would love to get a 10GA in there which would hopefully have bigger balls to prevent this problem. Can you start stretching before the 6 month heal time is over? How long should it take for my bottom hole to close up to the size of the barbell? I definitely though it would have by now!