Well I finally had my first date experience with a younger girl 21, having a kid. I wasnt going to go on the date to begin with, but I said hey what do i have to lose. Im going to try not to make this to long, but we went out to get a bite to eat and a couple drinks. She seems very responsible and cares so much about her kid which is good, but i realize having a kid and working while living at home= no time to yourself ever!! It is like having 2 full time jobs even with the parents help. The girl was actually very cute, had a FANTASTIC personality and we had great conversations, but what it boils down to I believe from what she said is: She seems to be looking for someone to settle down with to be a father figure to the child and help out. Me being a little older 23, Im still not ready for this and I believe trying to make a relationship happen in this situation, is very difficult. The worst part of the whole thing was I kept thinking about my old gf, and how much i cant beleive i still care for her and actually it even hurts to say this love her. After she cheated on me with her ex bf, I cant beleive feelings are still there. While on the date, always ex bf/gf talk comes up and I couldnt stop thinking about her! I wish i could turn back the clock and change the events that occured.