A friend of mine is in a bit of a pickle. About a year ago, she moved to SF, CA from Colorado to be with a college sweetheart. She is working on her masters degree in education (to be a teacher) and he is the assistant general manager of a franchise restaurant. She found a place (roommate ad on Craigslist) and started working as a nanny while she went back to school. She thought he was ready to settle down in a committed relationship, but she was wrong. He is 29 years old, still lives at home with the parents and has very little motivation to change his situation. He would pass on seeing her to "spend time at home" or work a few extra hours. She knows for a fact, he is not seeing anybody else nor is anybody else in the picture. One a scale of 1 - 10, he has a personality score of about 2.43. She finally made the move to get out of California and end that chapter of her life. She got in touch with a friend living in the Dallas area and moved there. She had been there a little while and begins getting sick. She goes to the doctor thinking that she has a stomach bug. Turns out she's pregnant. The father is obviously the guy back in California. Shortly after learning of the pregnancy, he loses his job because corporate closed many of their restaurants. She has very little income coming in due to her just finishing school this past May. He wants her to come back to California (where they will live with his parents), she wants him to come to Texas or back near her family in Denver, CO. My advice was to put the child up for adoption as she (or him) are in no position to support a new baby. She agreed that the timing of this is horrible. Anybody have any other suggestions I can mention to her? For the record, I have ZERO romantic interest in this girl. We are very good friends and have known each other since about 1999.