I recently graduated college and am trying to get my feet under myself, get a career going, etc. My gf and I have been in a long distance relationship for quite some time now...which as expected has been hard and somewhat rocky as LDRs can be. When we are together we get along very well. Well fast forward to the problem at hand, she currently lives with her parents due to some bad decision making, debt she got herself into beign irresponsible in college, etc. She currently has a waitressing job, likes it, and pulls in pretty decent money. I am considering moving out there in order to be with her and get myself established at the same time. She lives in NJ where it is expensive to live,and I'm not sure if I could afford a place 100% on my own. Lately, we've really been tossing around the idea of moving in together. The problem is that her mother is very traditional in that sense and is 100% completely against it and has told her that if she lives with a boyfriend before marriage, that she will not pay for her wedding. I completely dont agree with this, and my girlfriend does not either (i'm 23 she's 22). What is vag's opinion on situation like this? Any suggestions?