I was dating my gf for 7 years, she moved within the last year and a half 250 miles away to take care of her sick father who had cancer. She decided to stay in Orlando after she found a good job hoping I would eventually move up there. I was both pissed off and hurt she decided to stay, and the long distance thing has been wearing on me for awhile. About 2 weeks ago I met someone, and I went a little too far and we talked for a bout a week. I guess I was lonely, but realized that if I am interested in this new girl I have lost feelings for my current gf. I dropped the bomb on my gf 5 days ago. Her world is now turned upside down since we broke up. She cries and calls me non-stop asking how I could dump her like a piece of garbage. I love my ex-gf, and she was my best friend. But I am not "in-love" anymore. I can't stand to see her cry or be upset, it rips me apart. After I broke up with my gf I finally went on a date with the new girl, we hit it off. The next morning I get a call at 7am, it's my ex-gf and she drove 3 hours to surprise me. I was kind of surprised yet a little agitated. I went back to bed and she followed. I had no intentions of sleeping with her, but I did. After we had sex I confessed and told her we shouldn't have. After about a half hour of her crying I jumped into the shower. My ex goes through my cell phone, calls the new girl and leaves a message saying not to talk to me anymore, I have been in a relationship for 6 years. My gf also told her the new girl she just slept with me and not to call again. My ex gf left her 3 messages until I came outside and ripped the phone out of her hands. We argued and she cried hysterically and made me feel like complete shit. I sent her back on her way to Orlando. I told her I would think about it, I need my space for a couple of days. Another mistake, but I didn't want her to do something dumb on the drive home b/c she said when she left she hopes she dies. The new girl wasn't too happy about the calls and told me she has 2 kids and she can't have this crap in her life. She still wants to date me, but wants to take it slow. My ex gf calls me this morning to tell me she put her 2 weeks notice in and her parents no longer want her in the house. She begged me for 30 minutes to take her back. I said no every time. My ex is no without a boyfriend, a place to live, and a job. I just don't know what to do with my ex-gf. I was all she had in life, we were supposed to get married. I just felt I could no longer continue b/c of my feelings. How do I help her get over me, I've never broken up with anyone before.